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Mental Models

Language as a Mental Model

Language combines logical rules with many exceptions, requiring both memorization and deep, non-logical immersion for fluent use. Its origins trace back to arbitrary associations, making some aspects unexplainable.

THE IDEA

Language

Language has a certain quantity of more or less logical rules. One source of frustration when learning new languages is that there seem to be huge quantities of rules to remember, and also huge quantities of exceptions. It’s a tricky combination of logic and non-logic. Some languages are more logical than others. I always enjoyed the logical structure of Latin, but there are still certain things you simply have to remember, such as how the verbs conjugate. At least in English there is little to remember on that front, and no genders to remember for nouns, but there’s the awfully confounding question of pronunciation, which is not logical at all. Spanish pronunciation is much more logical (that is, consistent) but still has plenty of exceptions to grammar rules.

We can trace back the etymology of the language we speak now, to see how it came to be the way it is over time, through gradual morphing, borrowing from other languages, and sometimes misunderstanding. But as with logic, at a certain point we get back to a starting point that we can’t explain. Many English words come from old German or Latin, but where did those words come from? An etymology dictionary tells me that “cat” comes from Latin but might ultimately go back to an Afro-Asiatic language. Why, at some point in history, did people decide that “cat” was a good way to refer to a small, sleek furry four-legged creature? Some words are more obvious than others, like “cuckoo” which sounds more or less like the sound the bird makes. “Cat” in Cantonese is a high-pitched “mow” (rhyming with cow), which does sound quite like the sound a cat makes. More than “cat” does, anyway. These are the starting points of language and they must once have come from some sort of free or random association. After, all not all concepts make sounds that we can imitate in our naming of them.

One of the difficult aspects of learning a new language is the sheer quantity of vocabulary you have to learn to get yourself started. A certain amount of memorisation is hard to avoid. However, as with learning times tables, I have found that memorisation doesn’t help with actually using the language, because when you’re speaking you don’t have time to run through your verb conjugation to pick the right one. You have to be able to access it faster than that, from some non-logical, deep-rooted place in your consciousness. We don’t learn to speak our native language logically, we do it by immersion, by copying, by emotional connections, and by desire. Children first learn to say things they have a strong desire to say, like “Mama”, “Dada”, “cat”, “ball”, “more” or “mine”. They often try to proceed logically with language and have to learn that English, alas, doesn’t work like that. They might start to notice a pattern with how the past tense is formed, but then they’ll say things like “Mummy gived me ice cream”.

In any case, children often learn words by adults saying them repeatedly when pointing to something or giving that thing to them. They hear “milk” repeatedly when being given milk, and eventually make a connection. There is no explanation for why that sound goes with that concept: it’s a starting point.

When to use it

  • When learning a new language, focus on immersion and emotional connections rather than just memorization to achieve fluency.

  • When teaching children, use repetition and association (e.g., pointing to objects) instead of relying solely on grammatical explanations.

  • When creating new terms or branding, consider how arbitrary or imitative the word sounds may affect its adoption and clarity.

FROM THEORY TO EVERYDAY LIFE

In practice

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Cat in different languages

English 'cat' has obscure roots, possibly Afro-Asiatic. Cantonese sounds like 'mow' (rhyming with cow), which mimics a cat's meow more closely. Words can have arbitrary or imitative origins.

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Child language overgeneralization

A child says 'Mummy gived me ice cream' instead of 'gave', applying the logical past-tense rule even when the verb is irregular. This shows how children attempt logical patterns before learning exceptions.

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A MOMENT TO REFLECT

Put it to work.

  1. Think of a language you are learning or know well. What are the most illogical exceptions that frustrated you, and how did you eventually master them?

  2. How does the arbitrary nature of word origins affect the way we think about concepts? Does the sound of a word influence your perception of its meaning?

  3. In what other areas of life do we see a mix of logical rules and non-logical exceptions similar to language?

CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION

Source texts

  • The Art of Logic How to Make Sense in a World that Doesn’t (Eugenia Cheng)
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